Yes cherry.. many ppl dun like rain as well. Guess yer one of the sunshine ppl! I’m pretty much the weirdo in this sense. Ooh an ex-colleague in Shanghai once told me that because I am born in the Wood element, I need the water element in my life.. haha! I wonder if its psychological, but I do feel energized when i have bodies of water around. Maybe that explains why I love sea sports and diving!
Anyways, I was enjoying a long bus ride this evening and I started thinking about this job offer I received recently. Offer’s really attractive, its a great opportunity.. BUT (yes there always is this irritatiing but huh! tell me about it) but the very perk of the job happens to also be the drawback. The company’s in a really far away land.. a place that I know no one, no place, i dun even speak their language! That excites me, to be honest. To immerse myself in a whole new environment, in a culture that’s so alien to me.. to meet my soulmates, to reunite with my comrades from heaven.. I can only say, i can’t wait!
So but why then does phyl say that its also a drawback? Well.. as much as that may be a fantastic opportunity, there are lots of opportunities here in Singapore as well. And talk about perfect timing, the opportunities just have to present themselves all at he same time! Not that i’m complaining.. it IS a blessing to have choices, rather than having no choice in life. But very recently, the surfacing of these chances just means clearer and greater opportunity costs when I choose one path from another. I’m refering to all the differnt aspects in life, not just career opportunities..
I ran into a secondary school friend- Bing Yan a week back and we spoke for quite awhile.. he asked about the countries i’ve visited when I was still flying with the airlines back then. Well..like many of u.. I enjoy travelling, i love seeing new places and people. And what better way to see the world than to be an aircrew.. to be paid while enjoy travelling. But to me, that wasn’t quite my idea of seeing places.. u see our tainer Ms Nguyan once mentioned that the way we travel.. its like a holiday “on installments”.. by that she meant that we only get to see alittle bit of the place each time we get there, due to time constraints. That’s fine by me.. but soon enough I realised that even by installment, we’ll never get to see the place in full. In full meaning we get to explore beyond the touristy spots, the surrounding towns and countries.. to get to know and live and eat and speak like the locals. to immerse ourselves in their culture. For that, we’ll need to live in that country for a couple of years to say the least. that’s why I resigned infact. And it became my resolution to really explore by living in those countries that interest me. I started with china, basically because the opportunity presented itself.. I do belive the big guy up there has reserved the best plans for me! *=) Next stop, paradise?
So back to my conversation with Bing Yan, he mentioned he knows a couple of ppl who are such free-spirits as well. These ppl do not get attached… they move from place to place every few years. Well, the world’s so so big.. there’re so many ppl and places to see, to know. And life’s so short? I dun wanna juz stay at a spot for the rest of my life ne.. Like this huge playground, I cant possibly be contented staying on the swing from birth to death? I wanna move around the playground and spot other fun things to play.. the see-saw maybe? or the merry-go-round? who knows which other friends i’ll meet there?
Is the grass really greener on the other side? Nope, not always. But says who i’m looking for greener grass? Good experience, bad experience, it’s still and experience right.. We wanna live life to the fullest, to make use of every moment.. Plan for the future yes, but enjoy the NOW moment too.. cuz that’s what we’ve been planning for in the past, tio bo?
Cliche but true: Life’s short, Play Hard!
love n light,
Phyl